Toxic masculinity has dominated what it means to “be a man” for decades, but men today want that to change. Men are tired of hiding their emotions, of pretending that they don’t like Pina Coladas and Taylor Swift. Popular TV shows and actors, including New Girl and Justin Baldoni, are challenging traditional ideas of manhood and redefining masculinity for themselves. Men have taken to the internet to discuss what they wish was as acceptable for them as it is for women, and their answers reveal what men today think of toxic masculinity and how it has affected their lives.

The More to Men page would not be possible without the help of graphic designer, Arturo Magallanes.